These bios are what I can aspirational and borderline ‘The Most Interesting (Wo)Man” approach. They shouldn’t be written for yourself but should be written for who you are trying to attract.
Bios that are too strong, forward or trying to convince you this person is perfectly content being alone are usually a red flag for me i.e. “I am a great catch!”. There is a fine line of being comfortable in your own skin and being narcissistic.
Conversely, bios that lack energy, details, enthusiasm can be seen as dull, depressing or thoughtless. (more…)